Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Happy Frog Pool

Last weekend we bought Ethan his first kiddie pool - the "Happy Frog Pool" - guaranteed to provide hours of fun. Well, I don't know about hours, but E did seem to enjoy himself. It took a good 10-15 minutes to blow up the pool with our battery-powered air pump, so E ate his lunch and watched in awe as we got the pool ready to go. We filled it up with water and let it warm up a little in the sun so there wasn't quite a shock when he got in! At first E was a little hesitant to sit down in the cool water, but it wasn't long before he was splashing around and especially loving the sprinkler part. It was nice to be outside to enjoy the heat instead of trying to stay cool inside and avoid it. I've got the extra freckles to prove it!

Of course, it's a little late in the day by the time we get home on the weekdays, so we'll have to wait until this weekend before we have more "hours of fun" with the Happy Frog Pool!

Monday, July 14, 2008

Salem...???

Just thinking out loud - or at least in print - but I think Sean and I are seriously considering picking up our cute little family of three and moving an hour north. With gas prices continuing to go up and up and up it's starting to be less and less and less economical for Sean to drive to and from Salem 5 days a week. We've done the math and the cost of living is basically the same. Rent was more expensive, but usually included water and trash - we currently pay ALL utilities - so everything balanced out. We also figured we could almost live solely on one income, but it would be very tight - tighter than we're willing to go. We don't survive well on top ramen and PB & J - we get very grouchy! Anyway... I think we'll have to look into just a part-time job for me because ideally I'd like to be a stay-at-home mom. Actually we're really hoping to get a job managing apartments, because yes, unfortunately I think we'll have to switch to apartment living (something we'd hoped to avoid) for the time-being. Managing apartments would work really well for us... from what I know, usually you get free rent and often a small salary as well. This would be perfect. We could get the extra income we need, but without me having to go to work. We're working on getting our resume together and hoping by starting to look a year (or so) in advance will help us find what we're looking for... and ideally includes a pool, playground and fitness center! Hey, if we have to do apartment living, I want some of the amenities. :)

Nothing is decided yet, but there's been lots of discussion and some planning already. We've looked at housing (locations, floorplans, costs, etc.), but we're going to have to get an idea of daycare costs. The plan has been for me to go to nursing school - hopefully starting the fall of 2009 so that I can be a RN by 2011 and just after my 29th birthday! I wouldn't be working, but we'd still have to find someone to watch Ethan while I'm at school. That's definitely one of the downsides to moving - we'll lose out on our extremely affordable (free!) and top-quality daycare: my mom. But I think it's going to have to be the price we pay.

Anyway... just wanted to get my thoughts on paper. I know my family (especially Lizzy) is already freaking out at just the thought, not to mention work and the 5th ward. We LOVE where we're living, our family, work and especially our ward family, but we're also getting to the point where we're ready for something new and different. And it makes the most sense for me to quit work to be at home with Ethan (and kids in the future), rather than Sean. His job is worth it for the health insurance alone. We get EXCELLENT coverage - and no cost to us. And we'll need it if we're going to have more kids. I know it's been a lot of rambling, but what does everyone think??

Friday, July 11, 2008

Used lawnmowers and other such appliances.

Yep. That's what someone asked for when I answered the phone at work today. Never heard of a lawnmower referred to as an appliance. Who knew? Apparently this guy did. So take a look the next time you're at Target or Wal-Mart - I'm sure you'll see the aisle with toasters, blenders, microwaves and lawnmowers!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

What's Behind Door #4?

Three years and going strong. July 9, 2005 Sean and I were married for all time and eternity in the Los Angeles, CA LDS temple. It was, of course, a beautiful, warm summer day and with a small gathering of our family and closest friends. We had my parents and sisters; Sean's parents, sisters, brothers and their wives; my dad's parents (Chuck & Sandy Toftdahl); Sean's grandma and aunt Shari; one of my best friends, Jenny; Sean's uncle Lemont and aunt Marilyn and their kids; our friend, Matt; some close friends of Sean's parents and... the mystery couple! I didn't recognize them, so I assumed they were on Sean's side. Sean didn't recognize them and assumed they were with my family! Turns out, Sean was right. It was my 'cousin' Mitch and his wife who live in Southern California, so the Toftdahls had another couple to represent! [Actually, this is the same cousin that got us into CA Adventure for free this past January and then met up with us and had a pair of Mickey ears and a Capt. Hook's hat both with Ethan's name embroidered on them. It's good to know people who have an 'in' with Disney!] ***Warning: This is a journal entry post, so it is very long and there are LOTS of pictures!***
We got married in sealing room #2 of the LA temple, per special request from Sean. His mom and dad were sealed in that same room. Later, his step-mom and dad, and then his two older brothers and their wives were also sealed in the same room. To get to our sealing room, you have to cross through the celestial room of the temple [for those of you who aren't LDS, you wear all white in the celestial room], which meant that everyone there was dressed all in white. What a beautiful bunch!

One of my best friends, Jenny, is a return missionary. She flew in from Utah to attend the wedding as one of my bridesmaids, but because she is an endowed member, she was also able to be with me in the temple. She and my mom were very helpful in the bride's room as I got ready for the ceremony and afterwards to go outside with my new husband to greet the awaiting friends and family!
We were blessed to have two receptions (and two cakes!) - an open house in CA and a formal reception a few weeks later in OR. Our CA reception was outside, which meant we could have lit candles in hurricane glasses and we were surrounded by palm trees - absolutely gorgeous! Lynnie and her friend and their helpers did a fantastic job of decorating Bob and Diana's backyard - thanks again to all who helped!


Junior bridesmaids: Sean's sister, Cassie and my sister, Elisabeth.


With the bridesmaids: Jenny, Christine, Alysha, Cassie and Elisabeth.

With my mom - now you can see exactly where I get my smile!


The Dress. I LOVED this dress. It had great details, a beautiful (but not too long train) and emphasized my small waist (at the time!) while covering up my hips!

Husband and wife.Now, as we head into our 4th year as Mr. and Mrs. (or Bro. & Sis.!) Southworth, we look back at what we've accomplished. We love our home [a duplex for now and a definite upgrade from the trailer] and the family car we bought this last year, but most importantly, the addition of Ethan. We are so blessed as a family and we look forward to what the future has in store for us... a possible move? nursing school for me? another baby? Sean going back to school? our own home? Everything with time and we can't wait!

xoxox Happy 3rd Anniversary, Sean! I love you!! xoxox

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

The Hills Are Alive...

...but not with the sound of music - at least not from me! Panting is more like it. Yesterday I took Ethan on a walk in his stroller. We live at the base of a hill and it is quite a work-out walking up those hills - especially pushing a stroller. Phew! Full-body work-out. I originally started walking up the hills back when the weather was nice a little in April. I had decided not to blog about it until I was more consistently in the habit. Good thing I didn't! The nice weather didn't last long and neither did I! May was super busy and we were gone every weekend and then I felt like it took most of June just to recover and have life a little more normal - I know, horrible excuses. Anyway, so the weather is nice (and hot!) again and my goal is to go climbing the hills at least 2-3 times a week. There's a variety of routes I can take depending on how far I want to go. I usually go a minimum of a mile or more, but there's ample opportunity to make it a good 2-3 mile work-out if I really want to - gotta work up to that, though! For this week, I've got over 1/2 a mile at the beginning that feels almost straight up - the incline should make it count as at least 3/4 mile, right?! Hopefully I can make it to the gym for some kick-boxing and weight-lifting on the other days. Now I just need to train Sean to make some healthy dinners while I'm gone - especially when I'm taking Ethan on the walks - which, by the way, he loves! Hardly a word out of him. He just watches any people that are out and we both enjoy being outside.

Eventually, if I'm consistent enough, I'd like to get one of the nice jogging strollers!
So, here it is in writing - time to keep tabs on me!

Friday, July 4, 2008

Family Tradition: Em's Baseball Game and Fireworks

So it has become a family tradition to go to the '4th of July' Em's baseball game and then stay and watch the fireworks afterwards. The Em's were away this year on the 4th, so it was fun to start our Independance day celebration a little early!

Last year Ethan was very tired (and hungry) by the time the fireworks started, but he still watched the show. Last year it was also HOT!! Oh man, it was so hot I felt like I was melting. We were miserable. And of course, no breeze in the stadium. I remember looking at the digital display clock/temp and I'm pretty sure it was still over 90 degrees after 9pm. We roasted! Luckily Ethan was still so little that he slept for a lot of the game.
This year, after a frantic search for the tickets I misplaced - I was sure I had pinned them to our bulletin board along with all of our other tickets (movie passes and Phantom tix) - we were just a little late. It was still the top of the 1st inning, but we missed the National Anthem and opening pitch - bummer! Ethan actually did really well this year - watching the game and especially all of the people!! Of course, it helped to have one set of grandparents, two aunties, Christine's boyfriend and a family friend there in addition to Sean and I - lots of helpers willing to go on walks with him when necessary. The Em's lost - 5 to 2 I think - but the fireworks show afterwards made up for it. A solid 25-30 minute show with a fantastic finale! We were a little worried that this might be a screamer year for Ethan - the booms echo off the stadium walls pretty loudly, but there were no complaints from our brave little guy. He watched the show in awe. He even pushed Sean out of the way so he could have a better view! It was a long, but fun evening and Ethan was fast asleep by the time we pulled into the driveway - after 11pm. What a trooper! No meltdowns, no major fits, just a happy little boy with a big grin on his face as we enjoyed the loud, bright fireworks display.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Happy Birthday, Seany!

Happy 28th Birthday, Sean!







On Wednesday, June 25th Sean had his 28th birthday! Of course, we both had to work and then had mutual that night - so he opened his presents and then we celebrated on Thursday with family.










































Sean got a tent & tent kit (with mallot, extra stakes, etc.) a cordless drill, hiking boots (actually, a 'coupon' good for hiking boots - we need to go shopping for them), a sleeping bag, some new shirts and a gift card. Can you tell camping gear was on his wish list?!



























Sean requested a home-made chocolate cake for our Thursday celebration and all of the cousins on my side that were in town showed up. Including my sisters (Christine and Lizzy), Jeff & Shalene, John, Steph & Jackson (he's about 5 months older that Ethan), and Niki & Sarah (Utah cousins) - and also my mom. It was a great get-together for the last night that Niki and Sarah were in town!

My Goofy Guys :)

My last several posts have had no pictures, so I stole this cute one of Sean and Ethan off Christine's Facebook album! This was at Grandma Mary's house when the Tengans (my cousins/aunt & uncle) were visiting. Good times!

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Picnic Lunch

This afternoon Sean and Ethan met me at work so we could have a picnic lunch in the park. Sean has been off all week (a nice break from the usual morning rush to get Ethan and I ready and out the door) so we made lunch plans for one day this week. We went to the park that's just over the bridge from where I work and Ethan promptly scarfed down his grapes and goldfish crackers. Sean and I had turkey sandwiches, grapes and some crackers and then we were ready to play! Well, Ethan was! He went down the kiddie slide several times, across the bridge and, of course, LOVED being pushed on the swings! Non-stop grinning from that kid. I loved spending time with my guys - especially during a particularlly stressful work-week. My co-worker has been out sick for 2 weeks!! The last time we saw her was the 20th, so it's been very busy trying to cover her position in addition to my already over-flowing in-box. For pulling double-duty, though, I found a thank-you card on my desk this morning from my office manager and inside was a $20 Quizno's giftcard! That's one of my favorite places for a lunch-run, but they're kinda expensive, so it's not a common occurance. She had already verbally thanked me, but this was a special treat. :)

Sorry - no pictures this time!

"Stupid shiny Volvo owner."

Approximately 60 pages from the end of Twilight. They are being hunted... and I am hooked. Not quite addicted, but hooked none the less. Hooked means I stayed up until 1 or 1:30 in the morning trying to find a stopping place. If I was addicted, I would have just stayed up and finished the book and then would be stopping by Target or Wal-Mart on my way home to pick up the next book. I'm not there... yet! I'll probably finish it up tonight and I am excited, but also anxious to see how Twilight will leave you hanging and... thirsting for New Moon!!

And to the concerned HP7 fans - you needn't worry. I will read the final Harry Potter book, but you have to understand where I was at last summer. I had a brand-new baby and I was working part-time from home and part-time at work. I was very busy and it wasn't real high on my priority list. Besides, everyone told me the 'highlights' and now it will be fun to read it and get all the details. I'm thinking, though, it will probably have to wait until after the Twilight series.